Project SHARE

In February, Mayor Karl Dean convened a Task Force to develop a Child and Youth Master Plan for Nashville and Davidson County. After six months of work, the task force completed Nashville’s first-ever Children and Youth Master Plan.

The plan charged the community to address 14 distinct areas of concern. Included in the plan are the following findings:

• 1/3 of MNPS students responding to a 2007 school culture/climate survey reported not having an adult they could talk to about their problems.

• Community survey respondents ranked ensuring academic achievement and providing a safe and caring school environment as the two most pressing issues that the community needs to work on (CYMP Community Survey, 2010).

• Almost half of school-age children suffer from depression, anxiety or aggression after becoming homeless (The Institute for Children and Poverty)

• Children and youth in Davidson County between the ages of 6-13 report involvement in bullying in some way at significantly higher rates than their peers nationally (Olweus Survey, 2005-2008).

• 1 in every 8 people in Davidson County is unable to read (Community Needs Assessment for Adult Literacy, 2010)

Monroe Harding is addressing these concerns through the Project SHARE program. Project SHARE matches adult volunteers with young people in the elementary schools. Over 500 elementary students need a positive adult in their lives. More volunteers are needed. A commitment of just one hour per week can dramatically change the outcome of a life.

Training will be provided. Contact the Project SHARE Coordinator, Laquita Harrison for more information at (615) 665-1409 or laquitaharrison@tnyouthconnections.net.

Options for volunteering include:

Project SHARE One on One Mentoring: Project SHARE volunteers teach at-risk elementary students skills necessary to engage appropriately and succeed in the classroom. These mentors spend one hour a week working individually with elementary students during the school day, throughout the semester or school year. Activities include reading, helping with class work, playing games or just talking.

Project SHARE English Language Learners Assistants: Spanish speaking volunteers are needed to spend classroom time with elementary students struggling to learn the English language. Teachers present curriculum in English, the volunteers are on-site to assist with class work in both English and Spanish to help ease the learning experience. Other languages welcome as well.

Safe at Last Education (SAL): Volunteers spend approximately ½ hour in each classroom presenting the Safe At Last curriculum to the entire class. Children utilize SAL skills to recognize unsafe situations such as abuse and inappropriate sexual behaviors. The volunteers teach children how to differentiate between good and bad touches, identify safe people, along with assertiveness and problem solving if they are in an unsafe situations.

Bullying Prevention Classroom Participation: Students in metro schools are taught the school-wide anti-bullying philosophy. Mentors help encourage the students to recognize bullying, to respond to it and how to avoid being a bully.

Parental Play

They other night while giving my daughter a bath she said, “Mom, I bet you wish you were a kid.”  I asked her why, anxious to hear what she had to say about the matter. Her response was, “because we get to play and you have to work.”

It got me thinking about several things.

First, when was the last time I played? I mean really played like a kid…not caring what others think, oblivious to everything else around me? The answer…it’s been way too long.

Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy playing with My Little Pony with my daughter and Little People with my son, but I would be lying if I said my whole heart was in it. I need to think about what I enjoy doing as much as my children enjoy playing with ponies or little people, and then do more of it!

Second, does work have to be a bad thing? The answer is no. For many years I had a job that I tolerated, even liked for awhile, but found towards the end that it was work in the worse send of the word. I had no satisfaction, no mental stimulation, no joy in it. I am happy to say that these days I have a job that I enjoy going to. Gone are the days of dreading Monday morning. I find satisfaction and fulfillment in the actual job and in the relationships I have with my co-workers.

So, yes, I HAVE to work in order to pay for things I need. However, it doesn’t really feel like work in the four-letter sense.

Find your passion in work AND play.

- Malinda Moseley

Out With The Dishwater

When you finish dinner tonight, skip the pre-rinse and load your dishes. When you do, you’ll conserve as much as 35% more water than washing by hand. Newfangled dishwashers are super powerful (Haven’t you seen the commercials?) and can handle most everyday dirty plates and cups. Energy Star models will help you save even more resources (and money), meaning that you’ll be an eco-friendly all star when it comes to keeping your eating utensils nice and clean. Remember to only use your dishwasher when full and you’ll be making the most of your water and soap, too.

- Sam Davidson

Web Wisdom

Have you ever watched a spider spin a web? Or take one down?

We have a spider that lives in a hole in the top of our screen door that leads from the kitchen to the back porch. This spider is our unofficial second pet. My daughter has given it the name “Rosie.”

Every night when I let our dog out, I take a few minutes to watch Rosie spin her web. I am fascinated by the whole process. Like clockwork, as soon as the sun has gone down and the night sky has turned to black, she comes out of her little hole and starts spinning. It takes quite awhile for her to complete the web, and the end result is beautiful. Tiny little stands of silver thread in perfect formation.

Every morning when we gather at the kitchen table for breakfast, we say “good morning” to Rosie. And again, like clockwork, as soon as the sun has risen above the top beam of our covered porch, Rosie starts taking down her web. I had assumed that spider webs are left to just disappear with the wind or rain, but not Rosie’s.

She disassembles it strand by strand, as if building it in reverse. The first few times I watched her do this I cringed. How frustrating it must be to take apart something she had worked so hard and so long in constructing. (Here I am giving human attributes to this spider.) But, she does what she has to do…what she was created to do. And, that is to build a web to catch her food…daily.

Sometimes, I cringe when something I have worked so hard on comes apart. It doesn’t even have to be a big thing either. It can even be a mundane thing like the laundry. Just when I think all the clothes are clean, there is another pile of wash to do. It’s an endless cycle.

Motherhood can seem like a thankless, less than alluring job at times…like building a spider web. But with patience and a lot of hard work, the end result is beautiful. Even if it feels like I have to start over with the same thing every day.

Thanks, Rosie, for the lesson.

- Malinda Moseley

The Great Kindness Challenge

If your family is like mine, Saturdays can be extremely busy. But tomorrow, as my daughter and I go from swimming lessons to dance class, and then run errands in the afternoon, we will be participating in The Great Kindness Challenge.

Presented by Kids For Peace, The Great Kindness Challenge is “one day devoted to performing as many acts of kindness as possible.”

From sunup to sundown  on August 14, children around the world will accomplish simple, kind deeds using The Great Kindness Challenge Checklist. The checklist features 50 acts of kindness from which to choose. A few examples:

  • Hold the door open for someone.
  • Pick up trash in your neighborhood.
  • Smile at 25 people.
  • Feed the birds.

When you are finished, you can share your experiences on The Great Kindness Challenge Facebook page.

Let’s help our kids see that no act of kindness is too small!

About Kids for Peace: Kids for Peace is a global, 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization dedicated to uplifting our world through love and action. It’s mission is “to cultivate every child’s innate ability to foster peace through cross-cultural experiences and hands-on arts, service and environmental projects.”

- Malinda Moseley

Kidney Cause

One of my lifelong friends lives with kidney disease. She has had two kidney transplants (the first one taking place in high school, the second one in college). She is now needing another transplant and is about to start dialysis three times a week. Her older sister also suffered with kidney disease from an early age. She died at the age of 30.

According to the Tennessee Kidney Foundation’s website:

Over 26 million Americans, or 1 in 9 adults, suffer from chronic kidney disease.  Another 20 million are at increased risk and most don’t even know it.  Over 7,400 Tennesseans are in kidney failure and need a kidney transplant or dialysis three times per week to survive.

I have watched my friend, and her sister, fight this disease, struggle with this disease, and live with this disease. Often I have felt quite helpless because I wasn’t a “match” for them.

But, I am not helpless. I can make a difference in fighting this disease, and you can too!

Here are a few ways to help:

Other helpful sites:

Tennessee Donor Services

OrganDonor.Gov

- Malinda Moseley

Puddle Palooza

Help give wildlife a second chance!

Music, food and fun for the entire family with proceeds benefiting Walden’s Puddle Wildlife Rehabilitation Center.

Date: Saturday, August 21, 2010

Time: 12:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. (Music begins at 3:00 p.m.)

Location: Yogi Bear Jellystone Park, 2572 Music Valley Drive, Nashville, TN 37214

Live music, featuring Rodney Crowell, John Anderson, Jypsi, The Notorious Cherry Bombs, Lane Brody, Emily West, Robin Meade, Victoria Shaw, Keni Thomas, Cerrito & His Mariachi Band, Nan Kelley as Emcee and many special guests.

There will be delicious food, swimming, a silent auction featuring music memorabilia and a chance to meet an animal ambassador at the wildlife demonstration!

Tickets: Adults $20, kids under 12 FREE (tickets are a tax-deductible donation.) Call 800-657-6910 or buy online at www.visitmusiccity.com

To learn more about Walden’s Puddle, please visit www.waldenspuddle.org.

Sunset Safari

 
 
 

 

Take a walk on the wild side at Sunset Safari! 

What:  Annual Fundraiser for Nashville Zoo

When:  August 26, 2010 at 6:00 p.m.

Where:  Nashville Zoo,  3777 Nolensville Road

The after-hours, adults-only event includes extraordinary food and drinks from more than 35 restaurants, caterers and beverage purveyors from the Middle Tennessee area. Sunset Safari will also offer a sneak peek at the Zoo’s newest habitat, Flamingo Lagoon.

Sunset Safari tickets are $150 per person. Adults 21 years or older only.  To purchase tickets, visit www.nashvillezoo.org or call 615-833-1534 ext 129.

Flamingo Fridays

Flamingo Fridays at Nashville Zoo!

Flamingo Lagoon, sponsored by The Memorial Foundation, is Nashville Zoo’s newest habitat featuring 30 brightly colored Caribbean flamingos and opens on August 27!

In a partnership with Kroger, the Zoo is offering Kroger Plus Card holders an opportunity to get one free Zoo admission during any Friday in August and September when another admission of equal or greater value is purchased.

Kroger Plus Card holders must present their card AND any Kroger receipt at the Nashville Zoo ticket booth to receive the “buy one, get one” deal. Zoo staff will keep the Kroger receipt. This offer is valid only on Fridays in August and September 2010 (August 6, 13, 20, 27 and September 3, 10, 17, 24).

Click here for more information.

DQ Miracle Treat Day

Be a really cool mom (or dad) and take the kids and head over to your local Dairy Queen  today for DQ Miracle Treat Day! 

“$1 or more from every Blizzard® treat sale on Miracle Treat Day, August 5, 2010 will help sick and injured children in your local Children’s Miracle Network Hospital.* Since 1984, DQ has raised over $81 million for Children’s Miracle Network Hospitals.”

Make miracles happen while beating the heat!

Click here to find a participating location.

Children’s Miracle Network