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The Official CoolMomsCare Weblog - May 2008
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Cool People In The Community: Beyond Birth(2 comments)Interview with Brandon Ryan, author of The Emotional Struggle I met Brandon Ryan through our site. Like so many of you out there, he has enjoyed CoolPeopleCare and all the great things we have to offer. Much like us, he has a story to tell. He wrote us with these words: Interview with Brandon Ryan Well, my mom always told me that I should take a stab at writing. I'd tried the college route and that didn't seem very satisfying to me. My heart just was not there. I wanted to give myself to something that wouldn't feel so much like a job or burden. Most people dread getting out of bed every morning, and I'm not saying that I don't, but I like the fact that every day is a chance for me to help someone through their day. You know there are so many people today who are in pain - whether it be emotional and/or physical. Every sixty seconds someone tries to take their life, and more times than not it's because they feel alone or life is just becoming way too hard. I've been there and some days I'm back in that place, but I believe that pain, in a sense, brings us together and lets us know that we are not alone in this world. So really what inspired me to write this book is the fact that people learn and grab onto hope in stories, so what better thing to do than write mine? Can you tell us a little about your condition? Were you born with Cerebral Palsy or did it develop as an infant? Yes, I was born with this condition. I was a premature baby - my mom always tells me that I just wanted to come out! Cerebral Palsy mainly occurs when a baby comes out the opposite way (on their stomach) and often it deals with a hemorrhage of the brain. I have heard of some people who are diagnosed later on in life with this condition, but mainly it is through the birthing process. How have you taken this second chance at life to help make a difference in the world around you? Well, as I answered in the first question, I believe that we all have the same struggle, and we are all looking for someone or something to cling onto to. Some of the most powerful words in the human vocabulary are "Me too." Everyday I find ways that I can share my story with people. It may be a TV interview, radio interview, a simple email or even the everyday conversations that spring up from handing out a business card. So I'm am always looking for a way to share the hope that I have with people, to let people know that life does not have to be a burden; it can be beautiful again, you just have to be willing to do what it takes to work through the pain. If there’s one thing you could tell people about life, what would it be? Also, I'd encourage anyone that reads this, to read "The Emotional Struggle", because you will find yourself somewhere in my story and the stories of others. the last thing that I want to say is that I'm here if you would like to share you story with me. I'm here to listen. About The Author
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Love In A Big World - Are You For Real?
How can we show Love in a BIG world? There is too much noise, too much hype. TV, music, magazines vie for my attention, trying to make me believe that being happy is all that matters. I need to get quiet so I can hear what my heart is telling me. Then I need to listen... to walk in step with each beat. I must laugh when I need to laugh and cry when I need to cry. No more games. I want to know myself and let others, especially my children, know me. That only comes with time - slowing down - being honest about the joy and the pain. Being real. Quick Tip: Definition: Read: Talk: Act: About the Author:Tamara Batarseh, Executive Director of Love In A Big World (LBW), is a singer/songerwriter/performer with over fifteen years of performance experience. She is co-founder of LBW and has been the creator of the organization’s programs and materials. Batarseh has recorded two albums, written LBW’s character education curriculum, trained LBW’s performers, and performed live for thousands of kids. |
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Green Vacations Part 2: Where to Stay and What to Do
It is summer and if the kids being out of school isn't an obvious sign, I'm sure your vacation jitters are kicking in. Whether it's the a vacation to the beach, the lake, the golf course, the amusement park, or international destinations, make it COOLER this year. Whether your vacation is just a short drive away or halfway across the world, this guide will give you a few quick tips to make sure your journey is a bit greener. In Part One, we talked about how to get where you're going. Now that you've arrived, here are some tips on where to stay and what to do. Where to Stay:There are many options out there for eco-conscious travelers, everything from green hotels to low-impact eco-tours. Try to stay close to where most of your activities will be located to reduce travel impacts while at your destination.
What to Do:Many vacation/tourism activities have large environmental impacts. If you are looking to reduce these, here are a few ideas of what to do, and what you might want to avoid:
So now that you're there, have a place to stay, and know what to do, a few questions remain: How will you get around? And what else should you know? Check back in the next few weeks for some very 'green' answers to these vacation-related questions! About the Author: |
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In Memory Of...
What have you and your family done in memory? Memorial Day is a national holiday to commemorate those who lost their lives in battle. In our "5 Minutes of Caring" today, we talk about visiting a memorial cemetery today. Here is what my family did yesterday in honor. We decided to take our little girl to a local memorial statue to talk some about remembering those who have gone before us. Walking to the memorial statue Words of inspiration When, Who & Where In Memory of... Leaving a Flower We would love to hear any stories of thing you have done with your family to remember those who lost their lives in battle to bring freedom to our country. |
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Cool People In The Community: More Than Just Fashion
"...I reached a point where I had to stop complaining about environmental issues and start doing something about it." - Laurel, Ecology Many organizations seek to change the world... why, we are one of them. Many people think of us tree-huggers as dressing in worn down clothes, maybe in a hippie drag, or with dread locks. Not so any more! Eco-mindedness has met fashion in the newest addition to Nashville, Tennessee's upscale Green Hills. Ecology seeks to change the world, but the goal is to inspire people to look good while doing it. Below is an interview I had with founder/ owner, Laurel Staples. Her words say best what the mission of this store shows. Interview With Laurel of Ecology
In the past couple of years, the green movement has definitely gained momentum. Cars have been designed and enhanced to become more fuel-efficient. Building construction is following new LEED guidelines. Organic food is more readily available in grocery stores and restaurants. But the apparel industry is oddly lagging behind the times. The industry still continues to move forward using poor methods of manufacturing and sketchy business ethics. The use of pesticides, herbicides, and synthetic fertilizers to grow crops used for fabric has an enormous negative impact on the environment that most consumers aren't fully aware of. And that's because "conventional" cotton, as they call it, is one of the most chemically dependent crops grown these days. A USDA study in the year 2000 revealed that eighty-four million pounds of pesticides were sprayed on cotton in the U.S.A. alone. And only a small percentage of these chemicals sprayed on crops actually do their intended job of killing insects. The rest of it gets absorbed into the air, the soil, the water, and eventually into ourselves. The alternative is organic cotton. The difference between organic cotton and regular cotton is that organic cotton is grown without the use of these pesticides, herbicides or other harsh chemicals. Although organic cotton is probably the most common choice for “green” clothing, other popular sustainable materials include hemp, bamboo, Tencel, recycled materials and surplus fabric. Our goal at Ecology is to (1) educate consumers about the negative environmental and social impact of manufacturing regular clothing, and (2) provide them with an alternative. Eco-fashion retailers and designers are now abundant and thriving in the fashion capitals of the world. Ecology's goal is to make that trend more wide-spread by carrying all of the top designers of eco-friendly and sweatshop-free fashion. At Ecology, we seek to set a positive example by advancing collective responsibility and improving the world we all share. What drove you to open this store? Environmental awareness and education had always been a part of my life growing up in Nashville, but a few years after I graduated from Vanderbilt, I reached a point where I had to stop complaining about environmental issues and start doing something about it. I realized while working in Kentucky that there was no outlet to buy either eco-friendly or American-made/sweatshop-free clothing. I got to the point where I stopped purchasing anything from the mall and would only buy recycled clothing from consignment stores. But my options were pretty limited. After much research, I realized that there was a market for green clothing and there were enough designers already on board with the concept to be able to open a store. I decided to move back to Nashville and fill the niche market here. Everyone deserves an option when buying clothing and this store provides a good one. How is your store different than just a fair trade store? Most of the clothing that we carry is actually produced right here in the USA by designers with a parallel sustainable mission. This way, the clothing is guaranteed to be sweatshop-free. If the clothing is not made here, it is made in sweatshop-free factories overseas where the workers are paid and treated fairly. But when you think about fair-trade or eco-friendly clothing, your first vision might be something along the lines of a natural-colored, stiff smock of some sort. Or when you envision USA made clothing, you might think of tough working clothes. But what we carry at Ecology is eco-fashion, with an emphasis on the fashion part of it.
Eco-fashion is clothing that fits right into your lifestyle and your wardrobe, whether is designer dresses, business attire, casual knits or whatever else you can think of. There are no specific “eco-fashion” trends, because now that eco-clothing retailers and designers are abundant, consumers can almost find any style they want. So what sets us apart from a fair trade store is that we carry designer clothing and accessories that are made with environmentally sound fabrics and materials. How would you encourage people to promote change in their community through fashion? The bottom line is, become aware of your shopping habits. Start making an effort to look for and buy eco-friendly products, including organic cotton, hemp, bamboo, and recycled materials when you go out shopping. If you are a price-sensitive shopper, as many of us are, consider shopping in consignment stores and buying recycled clothing, which is eco-friendly as well. This way, you are not directly supporting sweatshop labor, your clothing is still stylish and inexpensive, and you're benefiting a local store and in turn, the local economy. I don’t expect anyone to completely alter their normal shopping routines overnight. What I challenge them to do is to start thinking about your everyday decisions as a consumer. Before you make a purchase, ask yourself the following questions:
> *Is this product made in a sweatshop? This will help you get on the right track to become aware of the choices you make and perhaps start changing them. It's people like us who need to be the leaders in the green movement. We are the ones who are responsible for facilitating the changes that are needed to keep this planet inhabitable. So I encourage everyone to take the time to gain more of the knowledge you need to move towards a more sustainable lifestyle. What is your long-term goal with this store? Down the road, I hope to open more stores and increase awareness as far and wide as possible. For now, I just want to make this one store work. That’s simply it. About the AuthorLaurel Staples was born and raised in Nashville, TN. Environmental awareness and education was always a part of her life growing up, but it wasn't until 2007 that she decided what part she would play in the Green Movement. After graduating from Vanderbilt with a mechanical engineering degree, Staples moved to Kentucky to work at Lexmark designing laser printers. On the side, she opened an art gallery, and then a clothing and art boutique. Not satisfied with fulfilling her dreams on the side, Staples sold her businesses, quit her engineering job and moved back to Nashville in 2007 to open an eco-friendly men and women’s apparel store named Ecology. Ecology is Nashville’s first and only sustainable boutique that is 100% dedicated to organic materials, fair labor and fashion-forward thinking. Staples’ store sets an example of social and environmental responsibility and shows what one person can do to make progressive “green” changes in this world.
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Forgiveness - Saying 'I'm Sorry'(2 comments)
Forgiveness is the key to happiness. Have you ever apologized to your kids? Maybe you're thinking, "No way! Why should I do that?" Think about it. Try as you may, you are not the perfect parent. Even though you try to be patient, you lose your temper when you have to tell your kids five times to turn off the TV and come to the dinner table - among other things. Although parenting is a superhuman job, we parents are human. We need to own our mistakes and tell our kids we're sorry. Children are quick to forgive. And their forgiveness is sweet to our soul. Read: Talk: Act: About the Author:Tamara Batarseh, Executive Director of Love In A Big World (LBW), is a singer/songerwriter/performer with over fifteen years of performance experience. She is co-founder of LBW and has been the creator of the organization’s programs and materials. Batarseh has recorded two albums, written LBW’s character education curriculum, trained LBW’s performers, and performed live for thousands of kids. |
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Green Vacations Part 1: Getting There
It is summer and if the kids being out of school isn't an obvious sign, I'm sure your vacation jitters are kicking in. Whether it's the a vacation to the beach, the lake, the golf course, the amusement park, or international destinations, make it COOLER this year. Whether your vacation is just a short drive away or halfway across the world, this guide will give you a few quick tips to make sure your journey is a bit greener. Getting There:Driving
Flying
So now that you know how to get there, a few questions remain: Where are you going? Where will you stay? What are you going to do when you get there? Check back in the next few weeks for some very 'green' answers to these vacation-related questions! About the Author: |
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Compost: Uses
Compost: Week Twelve You may already have compost and if you do, CONGRATS! This cold weather and damp conditions seem to be slowing my pile down pretty significantly. I added some fresh grass to hopefully get the temperature up. Hopefully I will be able to do some of these things in the next few weeks. Please share how your composting process is going. Uses For Compost
Check out a neat video about how compost helps your soil. In the Series |
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Cool Moms In The Community: Washington Changes The World From Home
Here's an interview with a mom who truly is making a difference that starts at home. The following is an interview I had with Stacy Lewis of Mama-Om, her personal blog that is gaining great hype in the parent world. With gratitude, love, and peace she inspires her own family and seeks to bring families into community with each other. Her inspiring words surely will touch any person's life, as she shows how simple it is to save the world! Interview with Stacy Lewisphoto by Teddi Yaeger
What inspires you in your writing? When I was a kid, I wrote stories and poetry all the time. My inspiration seemed to be anything and everything! I didn't write for most of my adult life until I became a mother in my early thirties. Now, my inspiration is to gain a deeper understanding and appreciation for the people around me. I remember very clearly in the first days of my son's life feeling as though my heart had exploded. I was wide open to the world, and I remember thinking, "I have to find it. I have to find the connection between motherhood, peace, and community. I know it's here." Being able to honor daily what it means to be human and laughing dozens of times a day - when I'm not too tired! Or, even when I'm tired. How do you remain inspired through the day-to-day happenings as a mom? What inspires me is the thought of raising children who can listen to their own inner guidance, express themselves and work with others in a peaceful way, and who enjoy life! We seek to understand, and truly feel, how all things - people, animals, plants - are connected. In addition peaceful communication and compassionately connecting with other people, our family spends as much time outdoors as possible, in our garden, at the ravine near our house, on the beach, or
even just walking through our neighborhood.
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Get Outside(1 comment)
Get outside and enjoy SPRING for a few more weeks! Have you been outside lately? I don't mean just for a walk from the bus into school. Do you spend time outside drinking in the sunshine and admiring the flowers? That question reminds me of a great story, a family favorite. The Story of Ferdinand by Munro Leaf and Robert Lawson tells the tale of a young bull who'd rather sit under a tree and smell the flowers than bullfight. Ferdinand was grateful for the simple pleasures of nature. What about you? Last week I started working in my garden. As I dug in the dirt removing the weeds, I discovered snails and worms that I quickly showed my kids and their friends. These findings sparked the interest of my five year old daughter. It wasn't long until she and her friends were digging in the dirt with me. They found an old box and transformed it into the little creatures' habitat. Soon they had a collection of live snails and earthworms. My daughter delighted in her new pets. They slept in her room and joined us at the breakfast table. She couldn't wait to spend more time looking for additional members of her dirt-loving family. Like Ferdinand, my daughter knows how to enjoy nature. Now I'm not suggesting that you dig up your back yard, but I do challenge you to go outside. You can do many of the things you'd usually do in the house outdoors - eat, read, nap, talk. Or you could do something more adventurous - go for a bike ride, shoot some hoops, take a hike in the woods, skateboard in the park, play hide-n-seek. Whatever you do, get outside! Enjoy the sights, smells and sounds of Spring.
About the Author:Tamara Batarseh, Executive Director of Love In A Big World (LBW), is a singer/songerwriter/performer with over fifteen years of performance experience. She is co-founder of LBW and has been the creator of the organization’s programs and materials. Batarseh has recorded two albums, written LBW’s character education curriculum, trained LBW’s performers, and performed live for thousands of kids.
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Test Your Home for Radon
It's important and easy to check your home for radon. A quick (and free) test is the best way to know if you're home has high levels nearby. And, this article by Malinda Moseley shows you how simple the whole thing can be. My experience with home radon testing was easy and almost effortless. Here's how I did it: Step 1: Step 2: Step 3: Step 4:
All of these stipulations are needed, I understand. However, that left me with few options on where to put it. Step 5: Step 6: Step 7: Step 8: Step 9: I highly recommend doing a home test for radon! It was easy to do! |
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Beyond Your Backyard
Reach beyond your backyard and into the community! We have been talking at great lengths about composting. This week I wanted to help bring you beyond your own backyard. Much of what we talk about on CoolMomsCare is about family and community, so today we are going to discuss ways you can get out into the community in relation to your compost. The EPA offers a resource to people where they can find the regional and state composting programs in their community. The list is helpful, but it is also important to find communities that support what you are doing and what you support. |
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Because Cleaning Up is Everyone's Business
Keeping our communities clean is a family affair! Last weekend, CoolMomsCare participated in a Neighborhood Cleanup with Metro Beautification in Nashville. This was a rain date, as the week before the ground was mushy and the weather was not conducive to cleaning up trash. We had a few responses but really were not sure how many people would show. All in all, we were THRILLED with the event and will be doing more just like it. So, if you missed out on this one, we will have another one, but you do not need a scheduled clean-up to help keep your community clean. Teach your kids how critical it is to pick up litter and do it on a regular basis. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Summer Time's Comin'
Make plans for summer. School’s almost out for the summer. What do you have planned? Without school, you have at least an extra thirty-five hours of time each week, unless, of course, you’re old enough and going to be working a full-time job. I know you don't want to waste that time sitting in front of a screen. Use your time wisely. Here are a few ideas: Read for the fun of it! Volunteer! Try something new! Please send me stories about the great things you’re doing. Enjoy your summer... and remember to Love In A Big World! About the Author:Tamara Batarseh, Executive Director of Love In A Big World (LBW), is a singer/songwriter/performer with over fifteen years of performance experience. She is co-founder of LBW and has been the creator of the organization’s programs and materials. Batarseh has recorded two albums, written LBW’s character education curriculum, trained LBW’s performers, and performed live for thousands of kids. |
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